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Introduction So you have decided to take the
plunge and date a shemale. Well, if you're anything like me
when I first started you're probably full of questions right now about
dating shemales. It took me a while to learn what I needed to
know to have successfull realtionships with shemales and transsexuals.
That's why I am writing this informative guide.
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| First there a a few facts you need
to know to have success at dating shemales. Many shemales and crossdressers are actually straight men that enjoy being feminine. Others are bisexual or bicurious. Shemales or transsexuals in these two catagories only dress up at times and do not fully live as a woman. However a fling or relationship is not out of the picture. Then you have full blown pre-op shemales and transsexuals. These are the shemales and transsexuals that live as a woman full time. |
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| As you gain more experience, you
will find that dating and having relationships with shemales and
transsexuals is not much different than with a woman. Where to
Meet Shemales and Transsexuals
First things first, you have to
find shemales and transsexuals to meet them and hopefully start dating
them. It can sometimes be hard to find the right shemale or
transsexual, however there are places to find them. First are
there any shemale nightclubs in your area? A lot of places
have clubs that have "drag night" and shows. I will have a
guide coming out with a list of clubs so be sure to check back often.
A club that has shows can be an excellent place to
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| meet the shemale or transsexual of your dreams, plus many are there looking to meet too. The other big place is online. Sites like Craigslist can be full of shemales and transsexuals looking to meet. Just go there and look up your local page. There are also online dating sites that specialize in dating for shemales and transsexuals. I will have links coming so check back for that also. | ||
| Introducing
Yourself So you found a shemale or
transsexual that you have really got your eye on. Now it's
time to introduce yourself. You're probably nervous and a
little intimidated, I know I was the first few times. Just
relax, dep down it's much the same as with a woman. The main
thing is just to be honest, and be yourself. You need to be
clear, honest and provide enough information so that you stand out from
the crowd in a way that is interesting and appealing. Before
you say somethingthink about it first. Is this how I would
want someone to approach me, ot is this how I would approach a woman?
If not then you need to take a different approach.
After all, a shemale or transsexual wants pretty much the
same thing a woman wants. Hope this guide has been helpfull,
I will be adding
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| more to it as I get time. If you have comments, questions or suggestions you can contact me here. | ||